November 11, 2012

Donald O’Connor once shared that one of his favorite dance performances was the one he performed with Vera Ellen, in the movie, Call Me Madame. He said of Miss Ellen:
“When we danced together the great thing about her was that she didn’t try to upstage you. Women dancers sometimes try to lead. We worked together and every movement we did meant something.”
Just as an elegant waltz requires someone to skillfully lead …
Category: Marriage |
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July 14, 2012

Sexual sin hurts. It mangles and poisons. It attacks the potential beauty and closeness of one of God’s most mysterious gifts: The one flesh relationship of sexual intimacy. In addition to defrauding our neighbor, when we engage in fornication or adultery we are in a real way self-destructing (Rom. 1:24-27).
While most Christians understand the health risks of extra-marital sex, and many will even acknowledge the emotional and spiritual damage such relationships …
Category: Chastity, Culture, Marriage |
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Tags: 50 Shades of Grey, E.L. James, erotica, fornication, Mommy Porn, pornography, sexual sin
May 19, 2012

Admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphemed. (Titus 2:4–5)
In Titus 2, we older women are instructed to teach the younger women the following seven things (over the next few weeks, each of the following topics will turn into live links). The job isn’t given to men; it’s …
Category: Bible Study, Chastity, Daughters, Homemaking, Marriage, Modesty, Motherhood, Quiverfull, Speaking Truth in Love |
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February 10, 2012

Read Part 2 HERE – Divided We Fall: The Great Dance
Throughout history there have been tyrants who have abused their authority and ignored their duty to selflessly guide those under their charge. Likewise, there are husbands who ignore or abuse their call to sacrificially lead their wives and children. A tyrant abuses his position of authority to oppress and use, rather than to protect and build up. Partly because of …
Category: Feminism, Marriage |
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Tags: Adultery, Divorce, homosexuality, pornography, purity
February 8, 2012

Read Part 1 here: Stained Sheets: Licking Ash Trays
While God has declared that the two should become “one flesh,” many husbands and wives have separate bank accounts and split the bills; many have individual careers and social lives, which sometimes include close friendships with those of the opposite sex. Sadly, there are Christian couples who attend separate churches and even sleep in separate bedrooms. Millions of couples share an address …
Category: Marriage |
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Tags: biblical submission, marital oneness, submission, the dance of marriage
February 7, 2012

“Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.” (Hebrews 13:4)
Not too long ago, while driving down the Interstate in a large city, my husband and I noticed a billboard that caught our eye. There, pictured in a sun-lit field of wild flowers, sat a happy young couple holding hands and smiling at one another. Their expressions communicated love and respect; their wardrobes …
Category: Chastity, Marriage, Pornography |
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Tags: intimacy
September 1, 2011

by Rev. Richard Baxter (1615-1691)
Hat Tip to A Puritan’s Mind
Selfish ungodly persons everywhere enter into all kinds of relationships with a desire of serving their ownselves, and gratifying their own flesh without knowing or caring what is required of them. Their desire is for the honour, profit, or pleasure their relationship will provide them but not for what God and man requires or expects from them. [Gen 2:18, Prov 18:22] …
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July 30, 2011
Unlike The House that Jack Built, Mom’s House isn’t built in a day…

There are so many ways we women can either build up or, in contrast, tear down their own houses. As mothers, we have the choice each day whether or not we’re going to be an influence for godly growth and joy in our households. In this talk Stacy discusses some of the qualities of a wise woman, and just what makes her …
Category: Marriage, Motherhood, Stacy's Audio Talks |
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June 30, 2011

“My people are bent on backsliding from Me. Though they call to the Most High, none at all exalt Him.” (Hosea 11:7)
This verse should get our attention. Those of us who call on the name of the Lord, are we faithful? Do we truly exalt him in word and deed? In the second chapter of Malachi, the Israelites weep and groan over …
Category: Divorce and Remarriage, Marriage |
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Tags: Abandoned, Adultery, Divorce, Grace Widow, Remarriage, Single Mother, Single Parent
March 7, 2011

“Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal; but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” Matthew 6:19–21
Not too long ago, I received an email from a pastor’s wife whose husband heads …
Category: Family, Marriage, Parenting |
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