July 27, 2017 by Stacy McDonald

What I Learned During the Modesty Wars: A Response to “Modest is Hottest”

Woman walking on a field collecting herbs to the basket.

You know, I’ve actually grown to avoid the topic of modesty. I don’t care to write or talk about it anymore. At. All. Seriously. Mostly because it seems to have become a “thing” over the years, and it often sparks a lot of energy-draining debate, contention, and misunderstanding. It’s certainly not a fun or popular topic – and I’m tired.

I’ve wanted not …

July 23, 2016 by Stacy McDonald

Dear (New) Pastor’s Wife…

Man And Woman Hands Helping Concept

A few years ago, I was asked to write a letter to a dear friend – a young woman who was getting ready to marry a pastor. As I wrote this letter, I was humbled and terrified all at once. How can you possibly prepare someone for the life of a pastor’s wife? The answer is that you can’t – not really. However, I do …

December 29, 2015 by Stacy McDonald

Why Husbands Should Submit

I got your attention, didn’t I? But it’s true! Over the years, I’ve spoken and written on the topic of feminism and the way many of its philosophies have harmed marriages and families. However, it’s important to remember that the danger goes both ways.

I think we’ve all seen the topic of submission in marriage abused and twisted, at least to some extent. But over the last few days, I’ve discovered some pretty horrendous …

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September 2, 2015 by Stacy McDonald

A Christian Response to the Ashley Madison Scandal

Broken marriage

I haven’t written on my blog in a long time. To be frank, I just got tired of dealing with the antagonists. But I felt compelled to write today. Marriage is so precious. It’s not supposed to be something you’re stuck in; it’s something you’re supposed to be thankful for—something you get to enjoy!

So there were two reasons I felt compelled to write. The first had to do with my absolute …

July 21, 2014 by Stacy McDonald

Breastfeeding in Public


I breastfed my babies for nearly 200 months collectively. I frequently nursed in public areas (restaurants, stores, homes, parks etc), and was NEVER asked to stop by anyone. As far as I know, no one was ever offended – likely because no one could even tell what I was doing (and it wasn’t even always due to a blanket).

If I couldn’t manage to be discreet (curious toddler stage, clothing challenges etc.), …

June 12, 2014 by Stacy McDonald

Five random things friends may or may not know about me…

1. I am an introvert.

It surprised me too. I thought that because I had been a chatterbox since grade school this meant I was an extrovert. I will talk your ear off once we get settled into conversation, but in a large group setting, I may feel intimidated by forced chit chat.

I prefer a quiet room with a few friends to a room full of celebration and noise. The noise, stimulation, …

June 7, 2014 by Stacy McDonald

At Least I’m Not Like Them…


“With the same measure that you use, it will be measured back to you.” (Luke 6:38)

Ouch! We can usually dish it out, but we can’t take it!

Lord, help me to be more merciful to those who have offended me! I may not have sinned in the same way she did (James 2:11–13), but I have certainly sinned in other ways – ways that, to some, would seem equally or even more …

May 5, 2014 by Stacy McDonald

A Grandparent’s Duty and Prayer

“Grandchildren are the crown of the aged, and the glory of children is their fathers.” Proverbs 17:6

I often hear from Christian parents who are frustrated with the negative influence grandparents or other extended family members have on their children. Typically it has to do with the undermining of authority or a subtle disrespect for the family standards or boundaries. This is sad for a number of reasons.

While most grandparents probably think …

May 2, 2014 by Stacy McDonald

Blasphemed or Hallowed be His Name?


Proverbs confirms for us that a good reputation is something to be treasured (Proverbs 22:1). However, sometimes we place more value on our own reputation (which is often a façade) than we do on the reputation of our God. We care more about how we look to others than we do on how well we represent our Lord.

By living a life sorely inconsistent with our testimony, we allow God’s name to …

April 19, 2014 by Stacy McDonald

Something to think about…

What exactly is it that causes that perverse glee to spring up in the heart of man when he sees another person fail? It’s evident on the front of every tabloid. We love to see someone else fatter than us, dumber than us, or seemingly more wicked than us.

We compare our strengths to someone else’s weaknesses and we pat our back pockets…the one containing those stones.

Sadly, the same thing happens in the church—especially if there is already angst against …